Akanksha works with children who face challenges at home
that no child should have to face. Here is an insight
into our childrens home lives and their amazing
resilience, courage and ability to smile through it all.
When
I was about eight my father abandoned us and that time
I was very sad and in spite of telling him to come back
he didnt. He married again and we all felt broken
Hina
One
time I was sad was when my uncles hit my father and
told him that dont live here because he used to
drink alcohol. I missed him a lot. When I remember his
name I used to meet him. I have not gone there for two
months because I never remember
Pankaj
I
have stopped going to school because my parents think
that I have become big
Chandrakala
In
my community men beat wives including children. The
wives are illiterate and so dont go to police
station and file a complaint because they are under
their husbands pressure. The husbands threaten them
with their fists so that they dont go to the police
Nasir
The
most important thing in my life is my parents
happiness because my happiness is in their happiness.
The most important thing in my life is that my parents
dream because I am their son and they dont have
another son so I have to fulfill their dream. Their
dream is to have a nice home like a flat.
Shyam
My
parents are ill and have a lot of tension of money.
Ravi
A
problem we face in our community is that certain members
are jealous at someone elses success. They do
not compliment other people when they achieve something
Rita
When
someone is throwing rubbish on the road and we tell
them not to throw on the road they say that is this
your fathers road then we dont know what
to say and move away quietly
Ravi
I
dont like it when my parents spit on the road
because they have got an educated child at home who
tries to change their habit of spitting and makes them
understand. I myself dont do that. I used to but
now I dont because I have come to know why we
shouldnt do that
Ajay
I have water for 24 hours but my kids water in
the Cuffe Parade community taps comes only from12:00-1:00.
There are only 4-6 public toilets for a population over
1000 people. Nikki Didi
I need to be independent because my parents dont
have work and I have to work and give the money to my
mother to cook food for my family because I am not sure
that they will earn money everyday.
Ajay
As
I walk through crowded lanes people welcome me, Didi,
Didi. I have never felt so much love, warmth and
importance as I do here. Everyone leaves their chores
to greet me. They welcome me into 6 feet by 6 feet homes
with no ventilation and damp floors. If you look around,
you can see the whole world concealed in one room.
Deba Didi
In
my life, my mother is important because she is the only
one who works for me. She can work very hard even a
man cannot do that.
Jeetendra
Saturday
is my special day because I get extra food and that
day my father gets his salary
Shakila
In
my summer vacations I used to work at my uncles shop
selling toys. I love to bargain and earn money. When
a foreigner used to come I used to sell the toy for
Rs. 50. otherwise I used to sell fro Rs. 20. sometimes
the police used to come and take money from me. Sometimes
the municipality used to come and take my shop also.
Ajay
When
my parents fight I feel like hating God why I got this
father who always drinks
Jeetendra
My
mother died and then my brother married again. I was
happy another lady came into my life. Then she and my
brother left me to live in Malad.
Pramod
Chandan
Nagar does not have electricity and other civic amenities.
Most of the people are recent migrants and work either
as daily laborers or collect scrap. Very few of them
have ration and voting cards and the children have no
birth certificates. Not only awareness of education
but hygiene and cleanliness is also lacking.
Kanchan Didi
When
my father hits my mother, it upsets me and I feel like
going away from them for some days and then they will
never fight because they will think that because we
fight our son had to leave the house.
Ajay
There
are drug addicts because of whom the police come and
hit us and ask us who sells drugs. If we dont
tell them, sometimes they throw us in jail for some
days. Ajay
People
should say about my life that he used to help the poor
when their home got broken. He used to rebuild their
house. Pankaj
People
tease others. If someone is mad the people of our community,
they make them dance and they make fun of them.
Jeetendra
Physical
conditions are difficult. The communities are
filled with clusters of houses and each family has many
members; together they all share a small room. They
share a common toilet between the houses and the drains
are all open. Their water comes from a common tap.
The first thing that hits one is the stench of
the big gutter. I wonder how the families that live
just 6 feet away, bear it and live there. I fail to
understand how they cope with the mosquitoes and other
pests that must infest the area. But they do!
Jill Didi
I
did not go to school because when my mother was alive
she told me that you have to stop studying andstart
cleaning the bus. From that day I stop studying and
I make money for mother Nazir
A
time I was very happy when I taught my mother how to
write her name in English. She got it and I saw a different
kind of happiness. My happiness is my mothers
happiness. Kavita
Our
community doesnt seem a clean place. It is always
littered. We dont have a proper bathroom and toilet
place. In the rainy season it becomes very difficult
as the roofs and walls leak. But even then I love my
community because this is where I have been and lived
for many years. Pooja
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